The anima

My compassion, my forgiveness even, is yours for the taking.  If you are up for it.  If you would just man up and be a man.

Be the man that you could be. 
Be the man that you should be.
Unless if that's an a-hole. Which you quite were. 

Link: https://www.brainpickings.org/2015/06/29/pathways-to-bliss-joseph-campbell-marriage-relationships/